Our confidence mostly comes from our own self-esteem. To possess high self-esteem, we need to feel good about ourselves. In order to get to this point in life, you need to start doing things that make you happy, focusing on the future, and creating direction and purpose in your life.
You can do this by planning short and long-term goals for yourself, and as a result, you’ll notice that your confidence will also rise. Find some time, sit down and write all your goals you would like to achieve. The key is to use present tense as if they are already happening. For example, instead of “I will be a successful writer and people will love to read my stories”, simply state “I AM a successful writer and people LOVE to read my stories.” If you don’t like to set goals, just create affirmations and say them out loud or in your head as often as possible. Or stick it somewhere you can see them.